I have always believed that friendship much like love is unconditional By this I mean you cant pick times to be a friend, you cant just be there when someones happy, you cant just be there when you need them. If a friend needs you no matter how little the problem you are there for them. Even when you know that there are worse things going off in their life. As a wise person once told me all the little problems to us could be big problems to the one facing it. We are meant to love our friends, if they are upset we comfort them, happy we are please for them, however there will always be a time in which we feel we judge them but true friends should be able to look beyond this.You are only someones true friend when you are there with no conditions no matter what happens no matter what they do. I have spent time trying to be a good friend and in the short 19 years I have had to battle the minefield I have learnt that true friends are the ones that you can call anytime of day after any amount of time, and they can just be there for you. Sometimes however friends come and go you see after time weaknesses that eat away at the bond you have. This is all part of growing up and there are times when you have to get on with your life regardless. Losing a friend is always sad, but sometimes no matter what you think at the time it is for the best. There will always be people that stop you from growing as a person and sometimes its best that they exit your life.
I am so happy that I already have people in my life that make me a better person, listen to me and will always be a part of my life.
To my friends I love you, each and everyone of you.
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